Spoiler: This blog is not a review. It is merely my thoughts on The Red Sleeve, a drama that I really enjoyed watching.
I really do not know why I do this to myself. This happens to me almost every time I watch a historical Asian drama. Knowing the ridiculous rules they used to live by back in those days, I know that more often than not I will be tormented by the drama. Honestly, what miserable lives they led back then! While I wish I could say otherwise, The Red Sleeve was no different. Like the title of the drama was not clue enough, I should have known about the inevitable heartache that was to come when King Yeongjo tells young Seong Deok-im, that as a pretty court lady of the Crown Prince her fate might turn out the same as the Royal Concubine Yeong-bin.
Royal Concubine Yeong-bin was the most cherished wife of King Yeongjo, who gave him six children and went through great lengths for his future. However, since she was just a court lady, she could never be queen. The highest rank she could hold was that of a concubine. As per the law, a King is prohibited from attending the funeral of his concubine, how much ever he might cherish her. The law also prohibits any man from entering her death chamber, including her own grandson. Such was the fate of a concubine. However, it is still better to be a concubine and die in a palace, than be a court lady who is not allowed to die inside the palace. Irrespective of the power they hold, the last moments of a court lady are always shabby and insignificant. When nearing their death, they must leave and die outside the palace. That is why, even though they can never leave the palace and have to lie alone in a cold chamber after their death, it is the dream of every court lady to win the favor of the king and become his concubine so they can gain the right to die inside the palace.
However, Seong Deok-im is not like other court ladies. While she may want to live inside the palace, she prefers the simple life of a court lady to that of a royal. That way, even though her life is tied to the palace like a royal concubine, she will at least have the freedom to step out of it once in a while with her friends, and even within the restricted life of a place maid she can still live her life by making choices, however trivial they might be. She knows as a concubine she will have to give up all that she holds dear, and live a life of waiting, dedicated to the King, a man that she will have to share with other women. As someone who craves the simple things in life, she is afraid that she will lose herself if she choses such a life. That is why she is so reluctant to become San’s concubine when he becomes the King, even though she loves him.
The Red Sleeve, which is about the court ladies that serve in the King’s palace, is such a perfect title for this drama. There are many types of palace maids serving in the palace. However there is only one group of them that dye their sleeves red. These are the court ladies that belong to the King. They usually enter the palace as little girls, when the King is still a young Crown Prince. They are trained until the coming of age ceremony, after which they start working in the Crown Prince’s palace, and will follow him till the very end. Their fate depends on the Crown Prince / King that they serve. If their master dies then they will have to leave the palace. Seong Deok-im is one such court lady, who comes to the palace as the maid of Crown Prince San, who later becomes King Jeongjo. Unlike other historical dramas, what I liked about The Red Sleeve is that we get to see life in the palace through the eyes of the many women living in it. It does not matter whether you are the Queen, concubine, princess, head court lady or maid, every one is a prisoner in this big luxurious prison. There isn’t much any of them can do by their own free will. While the situation of a maid may be the worst, they are all still at the mercy of their superiors. While the maids spend their entire lives slaving away, the royal women spend their lives alone and waiting. Their fate is such that they can neither leave the palace nor mourn the death of a loved one. The only way these women can survive in the palace is by depending on each other. And when it comes to friendship or alliances, the court ladies definitely have it better than the royals.
The social standing of a court lady, often referred to as palace fairy, is pretty high outside the palace. As glamorous as their life might seem, only a court lady knows how sad life inside the palace can be. As someone sharing similar fate, the court ladies know that they only have each other to rely on and protect. So, the bond they form among themselves is very strong. Be it Head Court Lady Jo, who is in charge of the 700 court maids in the palace, Court Lady Seo, who is in charge of the Crown Prince apprentice palace maids, or the many court ladies of the palace, everyone truly cares about their fellow palace maids, and are willing to do anything to protect them. Through Deok-im we get a glimpse of some of these relationships, the best of which is her friendship with three of her fellow court ladies Yeong Hui, Bok-yeon and Kyung-hee.
Honestly even more than the love story between Deok-im and San, my heart warmed or weeped for these four friends and their friendship. As four girls growing up together, helping and protecting each other while dreaming of a future when they can live next door to a book lender, reading all they want and munching on roasted chestnuts, you know that the love these girls have for each other is everlasting. They know that as long as they have each other they can get through anything. Deok-im was the most happiest when she was with her friends. Even Court Lady Seo, who was like her mother did not understand her as well as her friends did. Though San loved her very much, and she loved him, she could never be truly happy when she was with him. Her heart always longed for her friends and the life she left behind. That is why though San also dreamed of an eternity with Deok-im, I really hoped that Deok-im is with her friends next-door to a book lender in her afterlife and not with San in the Annex watching the flowers bloom.
That does not mean that I think the love San and Deok-im had was lacking, because it most definitely was not. However, as someone who had very different plans for their lives, I felt that there’s was a love that should not have happened. She had no intention of ever seeking the favor of the crown prince, and he was sure he would never get himself involved with anyone that was not of noble standing. It was really unfair that he knew exactly who she was, while she was in the dark regarding his identity when they developed feelings for each other. As someone who really values herself, had she known that he was the crown prince, she would never have fallen in love with him. That is why, even though I knew how very much in love they were, I couldn’t help but feel sad when she finally becomes his concubine. Seeing her loose herself, while she gave him her everything was too heart-breaking. I really couldn’t stop my tears when on her death bed she asks San that if he still holds her dear in his heart could he please just pass on by when he sees her in his next life, not because she holds a grudge, or hates him, but just because at least in the next life she wants to live the way she wants. I was not weeping because that was the end for San and Deok-im, I was weeping for the Deok-im who in the end could not live the life she so yearned.
I was sad for San too. In his entire life, Deok-im was the only person who truly made him happy. However, knowing how much he valued being a great king over everything else, including her, I couldn’t help but wonder if he chose to keep her by his side just because his grandfather told him that the only way to handle the immense pressure that comes with being a great King is to have a woman next to him that he can truly love and cherish. When you think about it, San always knew how much she loved her friends and her freedom. She even tells him why she does not want to be his concubine. In spite of that, when she ends up becoming his concubine, while she remembers his dream of being a great king and supports him unconditionally, he forgets about her fear of losing herself. He knows better than anyone else how much she loves and cherishes her friends , and yet he does nothing to help them when they are in trouble, even though he knows that it will hurt her immensely. He even fails to see the loneliness and sadness that is engulfing her ever since she became his consort. That is why I can’t help but question his true intentions in keeping her by his side.
That being said, I am so glad that I watched The Red Sleeve. The fact that I was an emotional mess by the time I was done watching the drama, shows what an amazing job the actors did in bringing their respective characters to life, especially Lee Jun-ho and Lee Se-young. Jun-ho as the tormented Crown Prince who strives to be a leader who works for all the people of his kingdom, and Se-young as the palace maid who has to choose between her love and a life that she truly wants, were a treat to watch. So, if you haven’t already watched the drama, definitely check out The Red Sleeve on Viki. It is one emotional roller coaster ride you will be glad you took.